Priya nominates Dan, who always returns the shopping cart.
Rule number one: you can't call yourself a good guy. Somebody else has to. If you call yourself one, you probably aren't.
Somebody who knows him put his name in, and a big sister took him to coffee.
That coffee is the interview.
A big sister takes Dan to coffee. He asks about her job first.
You vote on the vibes, and ask for an intro.
Every guy here was nominated by someone who knows him and had coffee with a sister. Emails stay at the desk. Intros go through us.
You know a good guy. Tell us why. He won't show up on the list until a sister has met him, and his email never shows up at all.
specifics win. what did he do when nobody was looking?
nominated by: a friend
cost to post: $0. cost to him: one coffee with a sister.
He's in the queue. Next step is coffee with a sister. We'll email him, not you, unless something's weird.
Nobody gets to call himself a good guy. Somebody else has to say it. If you're calling yourself one, you probably aren't.
Not yet. Right now it's a list, and a pretty well-vetted one. Intros happen by email, through us.
His big sisters and their friends. They've been burned enough times to know what to look for, and they don't grade on a curve.
Somebody nominates him. A sister takes him to coffee. If it goes well, he goes up on the list.
It stays at the desk. Nobody browsing ever sees it. If you ask for an intro, we ask him first, and only pass it on if he says yes.
No. That's rule number one. If you have to say it yourself, it doesn't count.
Up means you'd vouch for him. Down means something's off. One vote per person per guy. The sisters read the room and act on it.
Coming. Anonymous, never shown word for word, rolled into a number. Until then there's the down arrow.
Reply to any email from the desk and you're off the same day. Good guys can also be busy.